So, here’s the deal. It’s YOUR life!

I really got to thinking today about how much allow our focus to move around…many times to every and anything that is NOT what we truly need to be focused on.

For just one little second, a young woman took her “eyes off the road” and landed herself in a car accident. She is fine. She will continue to move forward in her life and leave for college this fall, but she has been set back emotionally, financially and with respect to her confidence as a driver.

Think of it this way. You are in line to meet your favorite author who is doing a book signing. The line is long, but you are really excited and have been waiting for this opportunity.

As you wait, you begin to get bored. Your attention is caught by a new book, on the sales table…a book that you have been wanting to read for a long time! You step out of the line to go take a look…you figure, what’s the big deal, you will simply hop back in line…after all, there are not that many people behind you.

You browse through the book and realize that it not really something that you are interested in so you go to the end of the line and continue waiting. Just as you are getting close, at about the spot where you had been standing earlier, they make an announcement that the book signing has concluded and that your FAVORITE author has to leave to make it to another book signing!

We do it all the time.

We get bored.
We get frustrated.
We want instantaneous gratification.
We don’t like to be waiting.
We don’t like long lines.
We are impatient!

And as we feel these things, we allow our eyes to leave OUR road! We lose our focus and sometimes, accidents happen!

You will recover from most accidents…but there are almost always unintended consequences. You don’t know what those consequences are until they happen, but they are usually ones that cause us to suffer emotionally, financially and threaten our esteem and confidence.

If you are struggling to find your road or having trouble keeping your eyes on it, get support. Don’t lose the opportunity to meet your FAVORITE author! Stay the course and your WILL GET what you desire!

I am here for you!

“TO LIVE THE LIFE OF YOUR DREAMS YOU HAVE TO HAVE THE FINANCIAL MEANS TO CREATE IT AND THE TIME FREEDOM TO ENJOY IT! ” Francine Allaire, Dr. Robert Quint

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DARE TO RECOGNIZE THIS ONCE IN A LIFETIME, LIFE-CHANGING OPPORTUNITY

LOOK YOUR BEST, SECURE YOUR FUTURE AND THE FUTURE OF THOSE YOU LOVE!

Let me ask you:

What would your life look like today if you had been invited to join any of the leading Network Marketing companies at the ground level, I mean seriously AT THE VERY TOP?

Recently my husband and I were blessed with the opportunity to join Nucerity at the very top. We are offering the same incredible opportunity to get involved right now, with us, at the very top !

#1 Income Earners in a multitude of companies all share the same story, they all GOT IN EARLY, TIMING is everything and by YOU getting involved NOW means that IT IS YOUR TIME to shine, to finally serve the masses, to offer your gifts to the world and to enjoy financial freedom.

Seriously, think about what your life could look like a year from now by you getting involved at THE VERY TOP, benefiting from the most lucrative compensation plan in the industry and enjoying looking years younger?

Imagine having the opportunity to create your own economy in these challenging times and assisting people you deeply care about to do the same!

And if this opportunity is not well suited for you, it may be perfect for a friend, a family member or a colleague. Pass it forward, be a blessing to someone. You will be doing them a huge favor. Many people are looking for hope right now!

For more information, visit: https://www.nucerity.com/101381

What Makes this Opportunity so Unique:

1. TIMING is Everything in life – Being at the very top is a once in a lifetime opportunity,

2. the MOST Lucrative Compensation Plan in the Industry and

3. the Unbelievable Quality of the Product (when men and women start using it, they can’t believe the results (in just two weeks you will look younger and your skin will be clear and so beautiful that you’ll get addicted to it – trust me I did and so did my husband).

For a sneak peak, please join us (and invite your friends) for a 30 minute Business Opportunity Call

MON/TUES/THUR 6:00pm PST / 9:00pm EST
and SAT 9:00am PST / noon EST

Dial-in: 1-218-486-1400 / Passcode 12823 #

24 hr Recorded Overview

One Minute Presentation Calls (507) 726-3721
Product Call (507) 726-3769
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The product and the company are not new – the product used to be sold solely through dermatologists (hence its quality)- the product and company are reputable and well established) – what’s new is selling the product through a direct selling model

I would love nothing more than having the chance to make a difference in your life. My mission, passion and desire is to inspire and empower women, like you, to live more daring, passionate and abundant lives (and financial freedom is such a big part of that plan). So this opportunity is in total alignment with that.

But first, I had to overcome my own limiting beliefs because I never got involved with this kind of opportunity until now. Pearl of Wisdom: Dare to Recognize a Once in a Lifetime Opportunity when It Knocks especially if it doesn’t look like the kind of opportunity you usually get involved with.

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Not convinced yet, please do YourSELF a favor and read on:

This is all about YOU!
(You can read below what propelled me to get involved – I’ve never been involved in networking marketing or direct selling before but this opportunity was too great to ignore, plus I love the product and would use it whether I would make any money at it).

Let me ask you. Do you have any gaps in your life?
On a scale of 1 to 10

How important to you is your Appearance?
If 10 = You spend all discretionary dollar you have on your appearance
If 1 = You’re lucky if you shower once a week

Where are you now on that scale?

• Are you enjoying how you are aging?
• How are the sun and the weather treating your skin?
• Does your lifestyle show up on your face and on your skin?

How important is your Wealth to you?

If 10 = You have total financial freedom
If 1 = You can barely afford to pay your bills and you have a lot of anxiety and concerns about money.

Where are you now on that scale?

• Do you have financial security?
• Are you happy with the amount of money you are making?
• Do you have peace of mind knowing that you have the financial resources to fully support yourself and your loved ones?

How important is your TIME FREEDOM?
If 10 = You have total time freedom, you can choose how you spend your time.
If 1 = You are feeling totally overwhelmed – it feels like your life is spinning out of control

Where are you now on that scale?

• Do you have time to enjoy what matters most to you – your friends, your hobbies, your work?
• Do you have the ability to make your own schedule?
• Are you in a position to tell your boss when you’re going to take a vacation?
• Do you get up every day excited and eager to start your day?
• Do you love your life?
I am going to let you decide for yourself where you are at and what matters most to you.

For more information, visit: https://www.nucerity.com/101381

In any relationship, whether a spouse, child, friend, colleague…we develop a pattern of interacting with them.

Often we fall into a “role” or a comfortable way of being with them. Even if this “role” does not serve us or honor who we really are and what we really want.

Even after divorce, we often continue to play the “role” that we have always played with our ex’s.

We may say that it’s “not true” and that we are “different”, but the pull of that old pattern continues to call to us.

It may be that falling into the old pattern and “role” is simply a way of connecting with your ex?

A way of engaging with him…even it is unpleasant and volatile.

Is it possible that you fall into this pattern?

Step 1: Limit conversation.

The first step to breaking the old patterns between you and your ex is to begin to implement email as your primary means of communication. It is not necessary for you to have conversations with him, rather, any exchange of information can be done easily through email and with less emotion.

Step 2: Determine your own values.

One of the best things you can do for yourself as you begin your journey through divorce is to identify what your core values are. There are many ways to do this and exercises that can help you walk through the process but working with a professional is the most effective ways to do it correctly. Once you know your core values, any future choices and decisions will be driven by them.

Step 3: Honor what you want.

Often it can be intimidating for women to articulate clearly what they want. Many of my clients, and myself included, “caved” to what their husbands want or what they think others would want them to do. It is critical that early on in the journey of divorce that you begin to get comfortable not only with what you want, but articulating it to those in your life.

Step 4: Identify your desired outcome.

If you feel that you are falling victim to an old pattern or “role” in your relationship with your ex, take some time to begin to explore and gain clarity about what you ultimately want to happen. Your desired outcome is what you want to come out of the conversation or exchange. Frequently we forget about what the result is that we want, and rather, react to the emotion of the interaction. Focus on your desired outcome and you will be more likely to develop your new pattern.

Step 5: Remember that it is about you.

If you are clear about what you want, you have identified your core values and you keep your eye on your desired outcome, then the likelihood of falling prey to old patterns diminishes. This is now about YOU….the new YOU!

It is hard for those around us to accept change. Your change in pattern may throw your ex off balance and force him to react differently. Allow for there to be time and space for him to adjust to the new you.

Change takes time…for both you and those around you.

Stay committed to the process of changing your pattern, and you will be amazed at what might happen!

So…what do you want?

Do you know what you really want? You “say” you do, but do you REALLY know?

And if you do know, are you ready to face your fear and do it anyway? To make it happen?

You can make all the excuses you want…but the knowledge, power and tools to get EVERYTHING you want are already within you! IMAGINE THAT!

Let me ask you a couple of questions:

1. What do you spend your time doing and focusing on that does not serve you or move you towards what you want?

2. Are there things that you fear or don’t want to experience but you often find yourself thinking about anyway and more than you should? How much time do you spend thinking about the things you DON’T want?

3. What activities do you do on a regular basis that you really don’t have to? Things that you don’t have a sense of real purpose about and that don’t give you an outcome or result that you want and yet you find yourself doing anyway?

If you have answered these questions honestly, then I predict that a significant portion of your time, and probably your dollars, are spent on doing things that:

• don’t move you towards what you REALLY want

• are a result of “excuses” to avoid FEAR of doing those things that will move you closer to your desires

• fill you with a “temporary” pleasure that ultimately leaves you feeling empty and unfulfilled and farther away from what you want

• do not reflect those things that matter most to you and that you are PASSIONATE about…that have MEANING to them

Am I right?

I am not happy to be right, but my guess is that the largest percentage of your time and resources are spent on those things that do not and will not get you to your new and extraordinary life!

There are many reasons for this…some that you may know and many that deserve exploration.

When you are REALLY ready to align your time, resources and mindset with what you KNOW you want…then you will find it will all come flooding through the door!

And I am here to support you to finding this alignment!

Here is just one exercise that you can do get the juices flowing and give you some clarity around what you really, truly DO want!

Complete the following sentence no less than 10 times to reflect what you believe you WANT in your new life:

When my life is ideal, I am…

When you are done, you should have a list of the approximately 10 most things that REALLY MATTER to you…that you identify as giving you passion and fulfillment.

Take your time and be honest!

Once you complete this, you will be ready to begin the work that is necessary to align your focus, time and resources on CREATING a life that fulfills you!

As I always say…you are not alone and are not meant to do it alone! Whether it is me, a therapist or another source of support…create your own “team” to help you get to where you want to go!