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| Unfulfilled Marriage | Separation | Divorce | After Divorce |
Regroup
You are in the middle of a divorce and feel completely overwhelmed. There is so much that needs your attention; however, you simply don’t know how to prioritize everything. Communication with your “soon to be ex-husband” is becoming increasingly challenging, and with each day that passes, your feelings of sadness, anger and confusion intensify.
In addition, the decisions that lay ahead seem daunting and insurmountable. As a result, your anxiety increases. Despite the fact that you have an attorney and a few friends who are supportive, you still need help to clear your head. Understandably, some of the questions on your mind are:
- Am I ever going to get through this?
- What should I tell my friends, children, colleagues?
- What will happen to me?
- How am I going to survive?
During this time of uncertainty, it is critical to acknowledge the sadness, confusion and fear you are experiencing. In fact, understanding your thoughts, emotions and realities will be key to preparing you for your journey.
Together we will create a plan to help you move through each day, week and month with an emphasis on healing your wounds, building your esteem, discovering your courage and finding your happiness.
Renew
You are in the midst of a divorce and are not sure what to do next. Understand that coming to terms with your new realities is critical to planning for your future. After all, while you are trying to manage the current areas of your life, you are still proceeding with the divorce and coping with the resulting emotions.
Now you are ready to reconnect with who you are. You will discover your true self, find new social and support circles, re-acquaint yourself with your interests and passions, as well as assess where you are and what you need. Some of the questions you may be asking yourself are:
- Why did this happen?
- Who am I?
- What do I really want?
- How can I manage all of this?
At this point, your goal is finding inner peace and contentment. To achieve this, you will prepare yourself for wherever your journey leads and welcome all the opportunities and possibilities that present themselves. You will also rekindle your inner light and discover the courage to make the decisions that will create your extraordinary life.
Reinvent
You are ready to make changes and this is the phase where you begin the rebuilding process. You will evaluate your professional situation and aspirations, explore what healthy and happy love relationships look like, and redefine your social, recreational, spiritual and financial situation. As a result, you may begin to think about:
- What will my life look like?
- When will the divorce be over?
- When will I feel happy again?
- How can I do everything that I want?
- What are my possibilities?
Moving forward, you will explore what divorce means and how you can get through it in a way that makes you feel comfortable and, most significantly, in control.
You will also learn how to plan and create goals for yourself in all aspects of your life. By discovering the tools and resources you need to create realistic action plans, you will build momentum toward reaching your goals. Ultimately, you will gain clarity on what you want and how you can live an extraordinary life.
